Preschool Conference

Last week we attended Harper's very first school conference...yes, they start them in preschool now!  It was so much fun to see and hear how she is doing in school so far.  Academically, she is doing wonderful!  Socially, she is improving, but still has much more room to grow.  {Our main goal enrolling her in 3-year-old preschool was for social skills.}

Academically:  The teacher reports no problems in this area (yay)!  She knows all of her letters, shapes, numbers, colors, etc.  She is able to sort by color, shape, and size.  She can write her name and draw a self-portrait.  One page in her "progress book" that got me all emotional was a picture of a happy face and a sad face, and she had to say what made her happy and sad.  Happy = my mommy, Sad = when my mommy and daddy leave.  Oh that still makes me tear up, it breaks my heart whenever we have to leave her!

Socially: Harper pretty much only talks to her teachers.  At the beginning of the year she was their shadow.  At recess she plays by herself or stands by the teachers.  Now she is slowly starting to play with the other kids, which I'm not too terribly worried about because it is normal at the preschool age to engage in parallel play.  (when kids play next to each other, not with each other.)  Harper still will not answer a question in front of the large group.  She loves to dance and sing though! 

At Home: Harper practices writing her name almost everyday.  We are working on patterning, counting to 100 (she can count to 39 right now, and can count to 100 by 10's), writing all numbers and letters 

Goals:  Writing our last name, learning beginning sounds of each letter

#34

Happy 34th Birthday, Adam!!!

Homemade gifts are the best !  Adam's Birthday card from Harper - can you tell what she drew on the left side?  Birthday Balloons!

We made daddy a chocolate pudding cake, to go along with his favorite supper - Bacon Ranch Chicken Breasts with Roasted Ranch Potatoes! Yum!

I told Harper that Adam is now 34, and she said "Whoa!  That's big!"  LOL

PRN

As of yesterday I am no longer an *official* full-time employee at Iowa Specialty Hospital, instead I am now  a PRN (as needed) employee.  I still plan (and hope) to pick up full-time hours each week, however I am not guaranteed the hours, which kind of makes me nervous.  Adam and I had many conversations about this decision and we are confident that this is the best choice for our family at this point in our lives.

With Adam and I both working nights, we depended on our family members to drive to Clarion and spend the night and following morning with Harper.  If we both worked the weekend then Harper would go to Northwood.  I think it was wearing on everyone, myself, Adam and Harper included.  It was usually only about once a week and every other weekend or so, but it was still a hassle.  I think it was hardest on Harper, as she never knew who would be putting her to bed or why we were always sending her to her Grandparents.

My mom said something to me one time that really made seriously think about going PRN ~ she said something along the lines of 'not wanting Harper to associate coming to see her Grandma/Grandpa as a sad thing.'  Don't get me wrong, Harper loves spending time with both sets of Grandparents, but she also gets sad because we're not there.  I don't ever want my children to be sad about visiting their grandparents, I want them to create lots of happy memories, which I know is the case now.  BUT....it was time to put an end to the frequent visits without mommy and daddy going along too.  I know there will still be weekends that my children will visit without us there, but hopefully the visits will be fewer and far between, so they are excited to go see them!


Pros:

• I get to create my own schedule
• Harper requires less daycare, which cuts down on the daycare bill (and our families driving down to watch her)
• I don't HAVE to work weekends or holidays (or even nights for that matter)
• I don't have to worry about getting time off for special occasions (I just won't sign up to work if I know in advance)
• I can pick up shifts in both Belmond and Clarion

Cons:

• I am not guaranteed full-time hours
• I am not eligible to receive benefits - including a paid maternity leave (our health/dental insurance is through Adam so it's not a big deal)
• I work on Adam's days off - which means we only have 1 day off together out of every 8 days ( BUT we are all together every afternoon, our family time is spent together in the few hours before supper, instead of the few hours after supper like most families)
• I am not guaranteed full-time hours

As you can see, there are both pros and cons to going PRN, we just had to go with our hearts and trust that this decision will work out for our family.  I am not required to work nights or weekends,  but that is our greatest need at work right  now, so I will continue to work the night shifts and a few weekend here and there.  I do have about 5 days shifts scheduled, but the day shift is pretty much fully-staffed, unlike nights.  So I will work where I'm needed to get in my full-time hours, and I've even picked up a few shifts in Clarion.  I will continue to work as a PRN employee until: Adam switches to days, I get a day job, or both kids are in school ~ which ever comes first!

A BIG THANK YOU to our families who have helped us out these past 5 months - there is NO WAY that we could have gotten through that time without you, we are forever grateful!  

Quad Screen

At my 16 week appointment we decided to have the Quad Screening Test done, which is elective but also highly popular.  (I did the test with Harper too)

The test is a maternal blood test that detects abnormalities in 4 specific pregnancy related hormones/proteins.  The test is an indicator for abnormalities such as Downs Syndrome, Spina Bifida, and a few others.

My test came back negative, which basically means it's highly unlikely that our child will be born with these abnormalities.  The test of course is not 100% accurate, but such is the case with any test.

This was great news to hear and we are looking forward to our 20-week ultrasound to learn more about our baby's health.  (only 10 more days!!!!)

Elf on the Shelf Bargain

In case you haven't joined in on the 'Elf on the shelf" craze, now is your chance.  gohastings.com is offering the book and elf for only $15.99 (normal price is $29.95)  Plus shipping is only 96 cents, making your grand total $16.95!!!

I took advantage of this great offer, as I have never seen this book on-sale.

Click HERE for the direct link to this amazing deal~

Ali turns 6

Happy 6th Birthday to Ali!!!

That would make her 42 in human years I think.....

We didn't get her anything, but Harper and I are going to make some brownies in her honor tonite :)

(She got to sleep downstairs in her kennel last night since it was so cold, that's a present right?!?!)

Getting Married & Growing Up

Harper and I love the TLC channel, especially "Here Comes Honey Boo Boo," "A Baby Story," and "Say Yes to the Dress."

The other day when we were watching "Say Yes to the Dress" (which is a bridal show for those of you who are unfamiliar) we had a little chat about Harper's future wedding.

Harper informed me that she is going to marry her daddy.  My heart melted.  I told her that she couldn't marry her daddy because I am married to him, which she replied "but I love him too."  My heart melted some more.

Harper, although you won't be able to marry your daddy, I hope you find a guy just like him.  If you do, you will be one very lucky girl.

The conversation turned into me telling Harper that I don't want her to grow up.  I asked her if she could just stay 3 forever and she replied, "No I have to turn 4 so the baby can come to my birthday party."  My heart melted once again.

I just LOVE our little Harper.  I wish I could freeze time.........

2012 Recap

Is it already 1/2 way through January?!  I am WAY behind on my blogging (surprise, surprise!), time just never seems to slow down.    Let's take a walk down memory lane of 2012:

January:  Harper was the only one who stuck to her New Years resolution by getting rid of her pacifier!   Yay Harper!  It's hard to imagine her having it since she has gone so long without it.  Next goal is to get rid of duckie (I know what you're all thinking...NOT going to happen!)



February: Harper got her 1st hair cut!

March: Adam and I attending Adult Prom again.  We're hoping to go again this year, but not sure how I'll dress my growing belly.  We also spent a weekend at The Adventureland Inn to celebrate my father-in-law's 60th birthday!

May:  I graduated from Iowa Central with my nursing degree!

June:  I *officially* finished nursing school and received my nursing pin.  We also had the Masters family come visit us from Oklahoma for a few days.

August:  We traveled to Curlew to celebrate Adam's grandma's 90th birthday party.   Our little Harper started preschool.  We experienced our first miscarriage. 

September:  Harper turned 3!!!  I started my first job as a Registered Nurse!

October: Harper dressed up as Scooby-Doo for Halloween.

December:  We announced that we were pregnant with Baby #2!  We cut down our own Christmas Tree again. 

2012 was a busy year and we imagine that 2013 will be A LOT busier with adding another member to our family!   We anticipate a lot of changes!  We are looking forward to what 2013 has in store for our family~ as long as we have family, friends and faith on our side, we can handle anything life throws at us!

Happy New Year to you and yours ~ wishing you all a happy and healthy year!

16 Week Update

Fourth month - CHECK!  Can't believe we are already another month closer to meeting our little Junebug!

Size of Baby: 4.5-6 inches and about 5 oz (size of avocado)

Total weight gain:  still down 1.3 lbs!!  (my goal is not to gain more than 20#)

Maternity Clothes: Little bit of both ~ maternity jeans mostly

Gender: Our ultrasound is scheduled for February 5th and we will all find out together at the gender reveal party on  February 10th.  (More details to follow in the invitations that will be mailed out by the end of the week)

Movement: Not yet ~ should be any week now

Sleep: can't get enough!

What I miss: I missed not being able to have a drink with my family over the holidays

Symptoms: Some nausea here and there if I eat too much, but I have been pretty much symptom free thus far!

Cravings: nothing yet

Best Moment of the Week: Hearing the heartbeat at our 16 week appt (HR 155) - Harper even helped find it!  I also had a patient tell me that she "thought I looked pregnant" so I guess it's starting to get a little more obvious.

Looking Forward To: Our 20 week ultrasound and gender reveal party!!!